How do you ask someone to hang out without sounding desperate?
Ask in a casual way.
Keep yourself calm so that when you ask them to hang out it doesn’t come across as desperate.
Take a breath and use your regular conversational tone.
You’ll sound too eager if you say, “You are so cool and I really want to spend more time with you.”
How do you convince someone to hang out with you?
Be positive, add something to the conversation or otherwise have something to offer them. Buy donuts for the group or something. If it’s just one person, try being around, asking if you can join them if they are seated, or if they would like to join you for something—maybe coffee (on you).
How do I make friends without being needy?
Here are some tips for those who plan to host their own events in an effort to create a circle of friends.
- Lots of initiative and sheer enthusiasm.
- Show people a good time.
- Host events people love.
- Be a good host.
- Have presence and engage others in conversation.
How do you ask a guy to hang out over text?
Send a greeting text.
Send him a simple greeting to get the conversation started. If you haven’t talked to him before, remind him who you are and how you met. Say you’ve been excited to talk to him again. If you have talked before, just greet him the same way you would any other time.